Homeless Woman with Crohn's and MC

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Homeless Woman with Crohn's and MC

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Hi! I miss you, so I decided to pop in and check up on y'all. I also wanted to tell you about a woman I met last Sunday.

Someone brought Linda and another woman over from a local homeless shelter. She looked familiar, and it turns out that we both worked part-time (but in different offices) for the same mortgage company back before the real estate bubble burst. She went to church and spent most of the day with us, so I had the opportunity to hear her story. She has a bachelor's degree, had owned three companies, been a mid-level manager for others, and had worked for a local school district for 14 years before she was laid off 18 months ago. Because she is an older woman (age 51) she was not able to find steady employment in this economy, even with her qualifications. She is her mother's caretaker, and has been able to keep her housed but not always somewhere she can stay. Yes, I am slightly skeptical about some of what she told me, but you never know with family relationships.

In the last couple of years, Linda has had two colonoscopies and has been diagnosed with Crohn's and mastocytic enterocolitis. She was in the hospital for a month in the spring with the Crohn's. She has a good understanding of her food intolerances, but as a homeless woman, she has little choice as to what to eat. In the homeless shelters, they are not going to fix the food differently for those who should not be eating gluten, casein, soy, etc.

Linda talked about spending the night in the bathroom after eating chili made with cheese, and paying the price for other things she has eaten because there is little else. I told her that the most important concern was the continued damage, and she agreed with me. But she has few choices.

Talking with her really made me count my blessings. There but for the grace of God... I am truly grateful.

Linda had a very good interview with Macy's yesterday, and has another one tomorrow, so hopefully her homeless saga will soon be over. :smile:
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Stories like this sure puts things in perspective. I pray that her interviews go well. Love, Deb
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There are way too many people like Linda. Way too many. Hopefully it will be over.
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Hi Marliss, what an experience this lady has had. I'm so sorry to hear of these circumstances for this lady, I can certainly understand the challenges she is facing as I too am deling with both MC and Crohns but I am fortunate enough to have good insurance and a job. I certainly hope that she will soon find security in a good job. There is so many people struggling like this, I hope this economy turns around soon.

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Wow, Marliss, that's quite a story. We do have a lot to be grateful for (including one another, so much). I think about that, sometimes - what if I were ever in a condition of finances or frailty where I could not exercise my control-freak powers over my food.

I hope her story turns around (even if you were right to have some skepticism) - and the economy as well.
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Post by harma »

What can life be cruel sometimes. Having everything and losing it all. And above that two chronical bowel diseases. Like you say Marliss, she is happy she gets food, its impossible to be picky and say "yes please, can you make it gluten, soy and casein free and also please be aware of histamine rich food".

Lets hope she will get her life back on track again.
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She is in my prayers Marliss in hopes that she can find a job but it is not easy out there. Yes it is true - there but for the Grace of God go I.

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