Thanks for the support, Kari. My GF lifestyle seems easier everyday, especially with my husband embracing it for himself (most of the time). He's no longer declaring my food options as tragic or inedible on front of the kids

. But he is VERY CLEAR that he doesn't want our kids thinking there is something wrong with them (until a doctor confirms there is). He doesn't want them freaking out about food, or having to eat something different at birthday parties, etc. He wants them to eat regular bread (even though he's eating Udi's and they don't mind it). He is slowly accepting that my son can't have large quantities of ice cream or milk due to mild lactose intolerance, but he is NOT AT ALL willing to do the GF diet for prophylactic reasons.
Apparently he's not aware that many kids my son's age deal with serious allergies and health issues that are worse than having to eat GF.
We recently learned 2 of my husband's mother's family members have Type 1 diabetes, and many have thyroid issues. I wonder if the prospect of preventing juvenile diabetes would be more persuasive? If I knew we could simply wait for GI or other obvious symptoms to surface, then adopt the diet and mitigate all risks, I'd be OK. But I worry that damage and gene triggering is happening before symptoms become apparent. Imagine how horrible I'd feel if he develops Type 1 diabetes or another autoimmune disease, when I knew it was within my power to prevent it?
Hubby didn't want me to order the gene test. I knew he'd have at least one gluten-sensitive gene, so I shouldn't be surprised. But I guess I didn't expect him to be hit with one of the worst gene combinations.
I keep thinking about my doctor's remarks, that once genes are triggered, they are much harder or impossible to shut off.
With my freakishly high autoantibodies, I feel like I'm in a race to avoid being hit by a freight train. With no family history on my side of anything similar to what I'm dealing with, I'm certain my genes were triggered in adulthood. I can only hope that will be the same for my kids, but I feel like younger generations are getting their parent's ailments earlier and more severely.
My plan at the moment is to request celiac bloodwork on both kids at their next checkup, then consider Enterolab testing at the end of the year if I have leftover flex spending funds. With my daughter starting K in the fall, I suppose I'll gear up to pack lunches for both kids too. GF lunchbox ideas are welcome!!