Oma, I just read your post about Mike not being home for another week or so, sorry about that, it sucks big time. I would hope he would be home in time for the surgery, but I missed what you have to have done. Reflesh my mind, cause it is like a siv! I have had many surgeries when I was married and some were pretty scary, and my ex never came to see me till after, not even when the girls went in! And that was a big sore spot for me, because it is before that you need the moral support. But came from a family who never got sick, and even when they did eventually, he could never accept it. Made it harder for him though in the end. So maybe you should tell Mike that I will kick his butt if he doesn't get home for you too!!!

Wendy