The reason I have been stressed has a multitude of reasons. There is the stress of the wedding itself (with only 5 months to plan), me trying to run around and please everyone else, people close to me letting me down (shocked me), busyness at work, trying to keep up with the housework with general tiredness and then fatigue with the flare, worrying about my sister and her breakup, people being difficult regarding the wedding, the alarming cost of the wedding itself as it is eye watering! I’m still trying to deal with the ADHD diagnosis and therapy for childhood trauma. We should have had a holiday in April or May! :( We had planned to but New Zealand only opened its borders in May. Could have gone somewhere else.
I’m not convinced that postponing the wedding would have solved a lot of those issues. Some of the issues are lifestyle and learning what I need. Plus the fact I’ve been wanting to start a family for years, my fiancé has been dragging his feet so I’ve been pushing to get pregnant next year. We only moved out together 2 1/2 years ago, we are getting married on our 9th anniversary. I really struggle with life in general embarrassingly. My fiancé is my rock though. I have asked for part time hours some weeks, I work for my fiancé and there is flexibility; especially when fatigue takes over and I need a nap. Driving exhausts me nowadays and we moved away. I need to slow down and I need my fiancé to see that need. I’m hoping I will be a part time housewife if I’m lucky enough to get pregnant and carry a healthy child to term.
Furthermore my fiancé runs his own company, I’m sensitive and absorb his stress.
My fiancé is concerned anyway, though doesn’t want to postpone I think.
I will start taking Propranolol again, is that drug safe for MC??
Other people have said the same thing as you guys Gabes and Tex, I do appreciate your help and advice. Thank you.
I asked for a combined treatment, the gastro thinks I’ll be fine without the steroid Pred by taking the liquid drinks. I’ll be on them for 2-3 weeks. I have some Budesonide left anyway…
I changed the hen do to my house
Sorry for the essay! Pretty much everything is sorted for the wedding now too
Kind Regards,
Amy

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