Hi Mary----
Thanks so much for that reply----makes me feel better---
Every now and again---I thought---!!!this I am going to understand!!! but it goes way over my head---
And after I keep asking Jeeves----I still dont get it-
I kinda feel by now I should be able to scientifically converse about issues!!! or @ least understand what the heck all these things mean--
Am feeling better---thanks for asking---but now we got a *war* going on between Lynn and Lou---
Our friend,who has a big van has offered to help move Kait on Friday--being there is trunks---and clothes and all essentials things--
But Lynn says this is a FAMILY send off---and she doesnt want *strangers* in on this monumentous occassion--

and

the DAD isnt even going to this MONUMENTOUS occassion of his daughter going off to college!!! AND now Lou is so pissed off that he is NOT going to help either----
LOUIE said *NO* in a different form!!!!

Well maybe this was the day when *NO* had to be said???
Whatta a life--
luve Barbara
UFF--tell ya Mary I should really write a book

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