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Hello, my dear friends.

I am sure you have been wondering where I have been or what happened to my Mother-In-Law... :sad:

After spending 13 days away from home, staying day and night with her in Hospital, she passed away on Friday the 13th of October at 7.40 pm
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It has been a long, long time of sufferings. Very hard for all of us.
Thanks God we got a deeply appreciated help from a Hospice who admitted her. Their staff has been excellent as well as their care and love. We stayed with her day and night, waiting for the end...
She did not suffer and was very calm when she died. We were all together, with her when she left us...

Now we have to give all our love to my father-in-law who feels extremely sad and needs our support...

Thank you all for your prayers and support. For your patience and help.
We will try to rest for a few days, but I´ll be back to join the forum as I did before, in order to share other experiences (I hope they are better).

Take care,
With love,
Tessa
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Hi Tessa,

My prayers are with you, your husband and your family during this difficult time. Take care of yourself. Hugs are coming your way. :grouphug:

Love,
Mars
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Post by barbaranoela »

Hello Tessa--

My sympathies to U and all the family--

I am happy she went peacefully---and I know the *white-light* guided her to a pain free place and that now she is watching over all of U--as your Guardian Angel~~~~~

Blessings--
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Post by tex »

Hi Tessa,

Thank you for the update. I'm very sorry for the loss you and your family have suffered, but I'm glad to see that you were all able to be together, and that you were able to find the help that she needed to keep her from suffering during her final days. You are all in my prayers, as you recover from this difficult time in your lives.

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I am really sorry that you have lost her but I'm so glad she went peacefully and I know she appreciated the support you and your husband have given during all the time she was ill.

I hope your Father-in=Law will be able to find peace and rest through the fact that his loved one is no longer suffering in this life. I know he will miss her, and I am confident you and your husband will do all possible to help him. He is so lucky to have you both.

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Post by annie oakley »

Hi Tessa, I am sorry for your Loss. I pray you FIL will find peace and be able to carry on. It was a blessing that you all were able to be with her. We have missed you, come back soon Love Oma
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Post by Polly »

Oh Tessa,

Please accept my deepest sympathy on the loss of your dear mother-in-law. And also please tell Gabriel how sorry I am. I agree with Barbara about the white light......which is now taking her home. (where you will all meet again someday, I'm certain). I know you will take good care of your father-in-law and each other.

Lots of love mi querica amiga, :pulsinghearts:

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Dear Tessa...I am so sorry for your loss...please know that I'm thinking of you and your family. Blessings to you all.

Hugs...JJ
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Post by Alice »

Dear Tessa,

I send my heartfelt condolences on your great loss. It is such a difficult time for you and your family. You are a wonderful daughter-in-law and
can take comfort from all that you did for her.

May sweet memories help you as you grieve.

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Tessa,

My deepest sympathy and heartfelt thoughts and prayers for you and your family during this difficult time. Please take care.

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Dear Tessa,

My sincere sympathy and condolences on the loss of your mother-in-law and prayers that her husband and the rest of the family recover soon and know that she is no longer suffering but in a much better place.

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My deepest sympathy as well, Tessa. Take care.

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You are so wonderful...

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Thank you all for your sweet words, appreciation, love, support, prayers... For being there when needed...
:thanks:
Mars, Barbara, Shirley, Tex, Oma, Polly, JJ, Alice, Joanna, Maggie & Peggy.

Yes, it has been a hard moment, months of sufferings, a whole week trying to leave... But we were all together, with her, the moment she passed away and helped her trough to face that important moment, praying for her all as one. It was sad, very sad, but she really needed to rest in peace.
We are sure she had the help of the Angels... And that she is in a much better place, without pain...

On behalf of my husband, Gabriel, relatives and myself, we thank you all for your words, from deep in our hearts.
:pulsinghearts: :bigbighug:

With regard to my Father-in-law, he has gone through a lot and was not feeling very well today, dizzy, tired, crying... We will do our best for him to go on without her, giving all our love and support...

I have a couple of days off from work and will try to rest...
Will come back soon and join you on the other subjects as soon as I can.
Thank you again for being my friends, mis queridos amigos.
Love,
Tessa
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