bits and pieces

barbaranoela · Post by **barbaranoela** » Tue Jul 22, 2008 2:11 pm

Well Kait is in Ontario, Cali.--visiting for 2 weeks with Austin---
First time she traveled *alone*---by *air* yet~~~~
She did fine---asked help to get to get onto to her connecting flight---and now she and Austin are together--naturally staying @ his home with his mom and dad!!!

She luves Cali.~~~~betcha its cause AUSTIN is there--

Kait did ask Lynn---*mom if me and Austin have children would they be born with our medical issues?*!!!!

after looking @ her newly closed surgery---and not even seeing her belly button---those thoughts kinda scared me----I know she has been to her first GYN--
??must ask Lynn if she is on the *pill*??? cus I just couldnt imagine *rock-a-bye-baby* ---as she is going for that transplant and yadda=-yadda

To add----LYNN and I had WORDS!!!!! it was TIME!!!
say I to Lynn----*it would be nice if U would asks us first *if we are busy--anything planned etc. --before U go ahead and make plans and add---Dad I will be at ya place--and U will drive me to the airport and blah blah blah-

Well it didnt go over ---with Lynn---cus she plainly said---*well U guys have to be of help to me*!!!!

And I said---*NO----U ask first ---U dont take us for GRANTED!!!

So now I am on the

list-----frankly I dont care~~~~

It hasnt been *happy home dayz* but there comes a time when *issues* have to be placed in order!!!

And my *time had COMETH* and I composed myself and forged ahead!!

till later--
luve Barbara

Post by **tex** » Tue Jul 22, 2008 4:33 pm

Luve,
Galahad

annie oakley · Post by **annie oakley** » Tue Jul 22, 2008 6:09 pm

Sorry you and Lynn had words but sometimes kids have to be reminded that just because we gave birth and raised them it doesn't mean we have to cator to thier every whim, not to rag on Lynn but I am proud of ya sista!!
I hope Kait is on the pill as well.
Love Barb Calamity

JJ · Post by JJ » Wed Jul 23, 2008 9:37 pm

Don't you dare feel quilty...sometimes things just need to be said! Take care friend!...Love, JJ

MaggieRedwings · Post by **MaggieRedwings** » Thu Jul 24, 2008 4:08 am

Morning Barbara,

We had the heavy bowling balls last night too and over 2" of rain but not as bad as East Texas!

You have nothing to feel bad about. It was well past time to address the issue with Lynn and she has to learn to be respectful of your's and Lou's lives. You are being asked waaaaaaaaaay too much.

Hang in there.

Love, Maggie

Dee · Post by **Dee** » Thu Jul 24, 2008 5:37 am

Hi Barb!!!!
I'm glad that you spoke up and got the issue at hand off of your chest!!
I have been put in that position many times with family members and it took me a long time to learn to say, "Sorry, but I can't, etc.."
I know your sitution is completely different from mine..
But, the taking for granted of Dad & Mom on this end has had to stop because our son only phones us, not to see how we are doing, but because he needs something.....

Love
Dee~~~~