Sooooooooo---I am in shape and ready to catch U all up with my life's happenings--and to warn all newbees--I sometimes says IT as IT IS~~~~
AZ. was fine---being with our son Doug was wonderful and it always gives him a much needed pick me up---BUT the person called DIL is another thing to wonder about---to go into everything would take me several pages so I shall get to the issues FAST--
L and I walk in--no hellos---just sits and watches TV--gets up and talks to the dogs--goes on the puter--always has a *puss* on and that's why I dont go with L. when he is running to Doug's to give him a hand with *major stuff*--
Daughter Deb came for a week--stayed with Doug and Lori and had the opportunity to hash things over with Doug--(we got together for shoppings and such)
The most disgusting occurance with DIL---Lou--Deb--Lori and me went to the local deep cheap shopping area-(cool stuff at a cool price)-Lou parking car--and as me Lori and Deb are approaching a store--here comes walking 2 soused grungy looking males(mid 20's)--they stop Lori and ask her for a cigarette(she smokes) and what does she say to them---*sure--if U do a tumbeling trick for me I will give U a butt* and believe this or not --one of these idiots jumps up in the air and does a twirling thing(me and Deb are like *OMG*) and my DIL smiles and hands this jerk a cigarette--well me and Deb fastened our steps and kept walking--DIL browsed on her own--
U know my smell and taste are ZIP--but I did spray some fragance on me(cause I THOUGHT the aroma of it) and in the car I said to Deb and Lori--*oh sorry did I overdo the spray??? Deb said no--Lori said !gawd! but when we got outta the car she actually pushed me aside and spewed out * GOD keep away from me with that odor*--how stronger could it be outta the car than in the car?????
Well tears were filling my eyes but I managed to hold back---now this is why Deb was good to be staying there---Deb told Doug what happened and he was furious--and they continued to discuss all the BS that DEB even feels when she calls them----
He called me up and said *mom--I am so sorry BUT when U have something to say to her SAY IT```
I told Doug there are many times I wanna tell her to shove it but I dont wanna hurt U--again he said --dont worry about me--*thank U --I replied to Doug--
And that was the occurance with a DIL who FINALLY got a job down at the country store--by all thats holy about time she got up off her ass and helped Doug--now all she needs to do is clean a house that has been the way it is for the past 12 years---what is she?? A TAKER!!!! I always knew it ~~~~
And I do hope that DIL does NOT come to the family meet being held at Cape Cod----cus she aint no family of mine!!! whewwwwwwww--got that off my chest!!!
Other than that we have been busy at home---cleaning--rearranging stuff and so forth---
Now Kait--she will be going back to have that pain thing implanted again--and Austin's mom feels that Kait is way too handicapped to start a life with Austin --who also has issues--so Austin told Kait that they shouldnt be together---Kait to Austin---*but we luve each other*
Now I cried~~~~~~~~
So Kait is crochetting away and I told her comes Christmas display her stuff at one of the Holiday boutiques that they have at the gyms in all the schools~~~she made some adorable hats---scarves etc.
Now for Lynn--she is radiant---slimmed down---had her hair highlited---and is just so beautiful---due to she and Roger finding each other----*life* has entered her entire being----I am so happy for her~~~and Roger is having fun with Kait--which is an uplift for her too----so the candle still flickers with life~~
Lou and I are finally feeling our oats(and nothing else --I know where some of ya minds are--hahahaha)
Ok dear friends---old and newbees--I am home--
luve Barbara


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