Sorry---I still have more to say--got no-one else

barbaranoela · Post by **barbaranoela** » Fri Apr 20, 2007 7:10 am

And here is Kait,19, and never has had the warmth feeling of having a boy hold her--kiss her---and say funny sweet things to her--take her to a movie--or a walk---something---anything---
Here is Kait---who will never drive---who will have *mom* take her wherever--
Here is Kait who got lost @ the Community College--and asking for help from 4 kids who made fun of her---thankfully one of them saw her distress and took her to the right Xit--
Here is Kait-----*WHERE*???
How do U tell Kait not to be envious of her younger sister Kris,17, who does all the fun things of a teen---who looks so jazzy when she dresses---who works---who drives--has a terrific boyfriend---
*oh well hell Kait--dont let it get U down---dont feel sad---dont feel badly--take life as it has been handed to U*~~~~
There is worse off than U---and yes we know U know that--but when it is in our life---we dont care about the other side of the coin!!!

Well Kait---do as the professionals said-----ITS ALL IN YOUR HEAD---NO KIDDING~~~

and try not to really DWELL on it---
And as a treat for Kait---Lynn is taking her to one of the hotels--with an indoor swimming pool --for this weekend--
Kait should be going on a weekend treat with her special boyfriend--but Lynn is so damn frustrated--so she is doing this--

U all see my other half thinks I am letting this overtake me- to much--and to discuss it only ends up in WAR!!!

I thank U all for letting me sit here and scream it all out--

Barbara

Dee · Post by **Dee** » Fri Apr 20, 2007 9:27 am

You just go ahead whenever you need to vent, scream, whatever, here at any time... Tha's why we're here for you Barb!!
And to just let it out is a GOOD thing!!!!

Love

Dee~~

JJ · Post by JJ » Fri Apr 20, 2007 9:38 am

Vent away Barb....I can't believe that they have not been able to help Kait and that her pain continues. I will keep her in my prayers...hugs to you, JJ

annie oakley · Post by **annie oakley** » Fri Apr 20, 2007 5:14 pm

I'll Listen to you with no war.....vent away my dear we shall listen Love you Oma

jenilake · Post by **jenilake** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 9:49 am

Barb,

I want to say that I feel your pain for your family, I wish I could do something to help!!! I hate being sick, so I can only imagine how it must be to have the things Kait and Doug have delt with so long. I too, if I don't wake up, that would be a good thing. Please come and tell us anything!!! I can also relate to having a mate that doesn't want to hear anything that isn't positive. I think it brings him down too.

I wish I could do something to help you with the things going on in your life. You know we are here, but that doesn't solve the pain for Kait and Doug.

Love you!!!

Kathyp