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OMG! I found myself in tears :(

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This past year has hit my family medically from all directions. David's been hospitalizes 3 times, I've been hospitalized twice and today I hit a damn brick wall in the check out at our local grocery store. Arghhhh!!!!! :sad:

While getting in line there was a young couple in front of me and I wasn't really paying any attention until I realized that I knew these to people. OMG! I was devastated! There was my cousin Dana who was diagnoised with breast cancer in Sept. and even though I've been keeping in contact with her weekly with the computer it was the 1st time I've saw her since she started her chemo and lost all her hair. Dana is from Jan. to June older then my oldest daughter. She'll be 38 in Jan. When I realized who it was there was smiles and hugs as well as kisses. We were having this love fest right in the check out line. LOL :lol:

Once Dana and her husband Scott had checked out and I found myself all alone in that line the tears just came full force! Gosh Almighty I felt like an idiot. Right there in the check out line I'm hugging her and doing everything to be supportive and letting her know how much she truly was loved by all of us and how much we all were behind her.......Then she came back with the strangest reply. OMG! (Because I'm older and from her fathers generation Dana has always called me Aunt) "Aunt Jodi, I've heard about your weight loss but this is the first time I've saw you. Everybody has been making me chocolate chip cookies, pies, cakes and I'm gaining weight so how about me dropping off some of my fat food to you?" I felt so loved and so cared for with those words from her. I didn't have the heart to tell her that her generous gift would probable give me the shits for a week followed by severe pain. Just to bring a smile to her face I truly think I would have ate every damn chocolate chip cookie she would have brought to me.LOL

I've decided that on thursday/Thanksgiving Day my prayer is going to be based on truly being grateful for all the blessings of my life. I'm not 100% infact I'm a long ways from it but Dana made me realize that there is always someone fighting their own battles and trying very much to achieve remission.

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!!!!!!!!!! Be truly grateful for all your blessings and for one day remember you are not alone in this common fight we are all facing and that others are battling other medical issues and don't forget about them.

Love and God Bless:
Jodi
May God and All His Angels, watchover, protect and guide you "One Day At A Time".
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Oh Jodi!! im sorry to hear of the c ...but ynow i can relate to that story..

.a friend of ours suffered a swollen stomach at the same time as i did before i was diagnosed with mc. She then found out she was diagnosed with cervical cancer and it spread to her intestine. They could not operate right away because she had a blood clot and if they did, this would have killed her and she she would have been very weak if it burst...quite life threatning..She went through chemo etc...didnt see her for several months (friend of my mans lead guitarist)

Anyway my point is ...this made me realise how lucky i was not to receive this diagnosis (although it didnt change how i felt when i was ill) but it dam well made me realise that i was not going through anything as close as her...It made me realise that life is precious with illness or without illness and that i should be grateful that was not me.. cus i at the time of being ill thought that i had stomach cancer...i was really ill with that evil mc...I praise c sufferers because they are very brave and loving..... :hug1:

So yes Jodi we do complain and groan about our symtoms and stuff...but sometimes we gotta....like an emotional outlet :help: ..So dont feel bad bout yourself even though someone else is worse off than you...it aint a selfish crime..We all need to get a good moan once and a while...

Hope she recovers quickly...god bless her"

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Angy ;)
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Post by Dee »

Jodi & Angy,
These type of testimonials make one count their blessings and realize that there are others struggling with more serious issues..


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absolutely...each day is a blessing.... :smile:
Angy ;)
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